Chinese Proverb

Tension is who you think you should be.
Relaxation is who you are.

Chinese Proverb

Who are the “Chinese” and where do they come up with these amazing “Proverbs”? This wise saying pretty much sums up my entire life, which is full of tension, not relaxation. This was not from a fortune cookie so please do not try to add any prepositional phrases to the end of it.